I think that while you are still of sound mind and body you should be able to get a legal form (similar sort of thing to a Will) to stipulate at what point you would like the needle for the long goodnight.
Now I can feel the 'Right to Life'-ers bristling and getting ready to come out of their collars, but I'm not advocating that this should be
compulsory, just that we should have the choice to
legally opt out. Everyone should have the right to choose, and the 'Right to Life'-ers would choose not to. By the same token it should not be up to these same people to enforce
their beliefs on everyone else.
This hypothetical legal document should allow you to decide at what point in your decline you wish to end it - constant excruciating pain; having to be fed and changed; inability to communicate; not being able to recognise friends and loved ones - whatever your particular benchmark/s may be which would make life no longer viable for you. The document should be witnessed and lodged with a solicitor, with copies for your family. Family members would not be allowed to over-ride your wishes, however,
you could change your mind at any time while you are still of sound mind. The only person you could use one of these documents for is yourself.
What's brought this on? I have been visiting the nursing home and there are so many poor, empty husks of people in there. Whoever they were, they left long ago. What's left is the packaging. I feel more sorry for their visitors because there is nobody home when they sit and talk to them. I would not want my husband or kids to have to visit me in that state. It must be heartbreaking. If it was a dog, animal welfare would be pounding on your door.
Let's face it, the end destination for all of us is death. Ya can't avoid it. Much better to have a needle and go to sleep. Then they can grieve and get on with their lives. I've already told my family that I don't want to be kept on life-support machines if it ever comes to that. They are to pull the plug.